Bad Habits Don’t Always Need to Be Broken

Your twenties are chock full of bad habits.

You’re young, you’re in your prime, you’re on your own. COOL!

You’re irresponsible, you drink too much, you took another selfie, you spent all your money. NOT COOL!

But why does everyone have something to say about it? Telling me what should I be doing. Advising me on what I should avoid. There are hundreds of lists on every corner of the internet either agreeing or contradicting with what someone else has already said.

People grow up at different rates, and these compiled lists of what we should and shouldn’t be doing is entirely based on a generic assumption of how a ‘twenty-something’ acts. We don’t act the same. We’re not all on the same timeline.

As a ‘twenty-something’ myself, I read these lists and immediately compare my life to what they’re telling me to do and avoid. Sometimes I agree, but sometimes I don’t.

Look, I get it. I’m not supposed to break the law, and being inappropriately drunk in public before 2pm is frowned upon by society. But half the battle of being in your twenties is moving out of your parents home – IF YOU CAN, figuring out your relationships – IF YOU HAVE ONE, and managing your money – IF YOU HAVE ANY.

The idea of being twenty-something and having your life figured out is utter insanity. Yes that is the ultimate goal. But we all know that. Why do we have to grow up immediately after college and not have fun anymore?

I don’t think you ever reach a point where you have it figured out. My parents don’t even have their life figured out. They moved to the suburbs thirty years ago, and now have no idea what to do with their lives since we’ve moved out.

I bet they didn’t think about that when they had four kids under five-years-old. They were just trying to survive the day without wanting to (metaphorically) kill all of us. It was a stage in life. Just like now.

Personally, I have a lot of bad habits. But the majority of them stem from my age. Isn’t that the whole reason we take away knives from children and allow eight year olds to pick their nose? They grow out of it, and so will we.

Please don’t tell me to stop comparing myself to other girls, because girls just do that. It’s in our blood. If you ever meet a girl who says, “Yeah, I don’t really measure myself against other women, it’s a waste of time because I just love myself so much, and know that I’m worth it.”

That girl is either lying or she is a man. Women innately want to analyze things. Not just bodies, not just minds, everything. We compare tile samples at Target, paint swatches at Home Depot, and the vacuums at department stores before we buy. We are pros-and-cons list advocates, and it has nothing to do with how we feel about our own bodies, that’s just the most obvious comparison we, as women, happen to make.

Don’t let anyone tell you that you have to grow up. Next thing you know, you’re sixty and spend three hours a day wondering where your life went. Find a balance between toddler and parent and stick to it for a while.

It’s okay to be weird, it works. Just don’t lick anyone’s face and people will think you’re quirky.

Let’s stop talking about the quintessential post-grad love life. Relationships, and lack there of, are not unique to this age bracket. Reaching your twenties just means you’ve progressed to a whole new level of issues. It’s like you’re in a real life video game, and it’s saying, “Congratulations! You’ve reached level 22, you are now equipped to deal with the reality of dating in a thriving metropolis! Go forth, enjoy it!”

Newsflash: Where you live now is just a bigger version of high school or college. Same problems, different location. Adapt and deal.

Unless you have a dress code at work, don’t let anyone tell you what to wear. The fact that wearing sweatpants outside of the house isn’t acceptable is a crock of shit. Wear what you feel comfortable in. It’s not “if you look good, you feel good,” rather it should be, “if you feel good, you’re more confident.” And confidence is more important than wearing a tight pair of pants and heels because basketball shorts are forbidden at the grocery store.

You’re at the goddamn grocery store. Do you really think people care what you’re wearing when you’re selecting which cantaloupe feels more ripe? No. They’re more concerned with the amount of items in your cart and whether or not they should try and cut you in line.

Who cares if your friend group is sizably smaller than it was in college. When you were at school, if you attended, there were thousands of other people at the same place passionate about the same things. If everyone in the world lived in places based on the same interests, this would make it possible for everyone to have infinite friends.

Instead, we live in the real world, where people have to embrace differences and work to establish meaningful friendships. Ignore everyone who tries to tell you how many friends you need to have. This isn’t high school. Life doesn’t care about your friend count. If you’re happy, that’s what matters.

At the end of the day, follow your gut. More times than I can count, my first instinct was the best one. If you have to overthink a decision, chances are it probably isn’t a good idea. Unless you’re dealing with ghost peppers and heights; then thinking it through is always a plus.

Your twenties are chock full of bad habits and bad decisions to match. But you don’t have to break them right away. Let’s make this a judgment free zone, avoid the snarky comments revolving around making a bad decision, and let the individual decide whether or not to do it again. After all, you are an adult now, and it’s time you decided what is and isn’t good for you.

Along the road you’ll encounter a problem, a blessing, an inconvenience, and eventually, a reward… your thirties.

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I’m Hoping My Mother Ignores This One.

There are “meant to be carried to the grave” secrets, and then there are, “I’ll just pretend this didn’t happen for eighteen years until it’s time to tell it” secrets.

This story is the latter.

I want to preface this with the fact that my mother, to this day, does not know the truths of this tale. That’s how long I’ve kept it covered. It’s a stain on my sleepover past and I feel it needs to be cleaned up, which leads to potential repercussions that I am fully ready to accept.

Don’t believe for a second my mother wouldn’t extend her discipline arm over state lines and assert her dominance over me as an adult by slapping me with a one way ticket to Grounded Town; sans iPhone, computer, and necessities in order to learn my lesson. I’ve learned many a time to not lie to her, because when she means it, she MEANS IT. I lost my license for my entire second half of senior year because of what I like to call “a miscommunication.” I firmly believe she’d have no problem waltzing into my apartment and snatching all my electronics to hold them hostage until I realize what I’ve done.

Just kidding, my mom is the cutest, she’d never do that. Right mom? With that said, let’s get going!

My best friend Katie and I used to have an unhealthy amount of sleepovers. I mean, I was at her house two weekends, she was at mine the next two. It was fascinating and sort of alarming how our parents never decided that we saw too much of each other (which I guess was a good thing, because I ended up as Maid of Honor in her wedding, and you need to have at least two-hundred sleepovers to earn that).

But anyways, back to the good stuff. When we would have sleepovers, it was customary for us to plan out our activities by the hour. We would get the TV guide, yes a physical guide, and a highlighter to select our ‘watch list’ for the night. Normally, everything we did revolved around what time Blind Date would play, because our parents would be asleep and that show was super scandalous and not for our eyeballs.

And that’s exactly where this hidden tale began.

After stocking up on yodels, gushers, chocolate milk, and triscuits, we went to the basement to settle in and watch a night of forbidden television. But the thing about late night tv at that time, which was the late 90’s, was that there were a lot of infomercials that played during commercials. And I mean a lot.

One in particular, that I remember so fondly, mostly because it is the culprit, the fulcrum, and the heart of this story, is Miss Cleo. For a refresher in all her tarot card glory, see the commercial below.

Enticing right? And realistic. So realistic! She was the future, and she could see mine. Who in their right mind wouldn’t drop everything they were doing at that moment and call the hotline? Crazy people! And we were not crazy. We had a fortune to be told, and she could help us. She could see our future in her deck of cards.

And at eight years old, if there’s anything that we needed in that moment, besides sleep and behaving, it was to call Miss Cleo at 2am and get telephone tarot card readings.

And of course, since cell phones were still in development, there was no option other than to use my house phone. The land line. The family talker.

I picked up the phone and Katie read me the number. I dialed. It rang. Someone answered. Although, the voice was distinctly different than the one that came out of Miss Cleo’s mouth on the commercial. Mostly because it was a man’s voice.

“Miss Cleo‘s hotline, how many I help you?” Reciting his lines through the phone.

“Um hi, my name is Mary (name change completely necessary at the time) and I would like my fortune told by Miss Cleo.” I tried my best to sound super mature and adult. Even made a point to talk in a low voice, because that’s what older people did.

I was on hold for a while, the phone sitting on the ground between Katie and I. Just two young girls, getting their fortunes told on a Saturday night by a strange woman off the television. It seemed harmless.

Only when it was my turn to talk to Miss Cleo did I realize that this was not a regular fortune teller – this was one of the, exotic nature, so to speak. It was, contrary to popular belief, NOT FOR CHILDREN. Hearing all these things about a boyfriend I didn’t have, a beach was involved, waves crashing, the works. Who knew what she was talking about? I had no idea. I was eight.

Did that stop me from listening? Nope. I stayed on that phone call for a whopping thiry-six minutes. See, the thing about me is, when I am in character, I cannot break it. I couldn’t just hang up on Miss Cleo while she was mid-fortune. That would have been rude.

Moreover, in my mind, hanging up would mean Miss Cleo would have realized I was a fraud, not over 18, and immediately backtrack to find my house phone number, dial it and tell my mom that I essentially called a sex hotline at 2am.

I would have none of that. So, I did my civic duty and stayed on the line, listening to her jibber-jabbering away for thirty minutes before my reading was complete. Then I hung up, Katie and I laughed and talked about how weird she was, and that it wasn’t anything like we imagined. We eventually fell asleep, content with our night’s successful phone call.

My mom got the phone bill later that month. Turns out Miss Cleo is not a toll free number. In fact, they kind of charge you a lot of money to talk to her. And since ‘wannabee-adult’ Meg stayed on the line for more than half an hour, the bill for the month was quite pricey, and my mom started asking questions.

I denied it. I pretended like I was at Katie’s that weekend, that I wasn’t home, it couldn’t have possibly been me who called. It was offensive for her to even assume I would do such a thing.

Only I did do it. And I lied about it. So, let me say this here and now, I am sorry, Mom. I’ll be the bigger person here and just mail you my computer, my phone, and my license. I understand what I have done is wrong, and I accept the punishment. Just tell me how long I’m grounded for, and can I have dessert? If not, I’m going to have to clear out some of my kitchen cabinets. But I’ll have time now that I can’t go out.

Lesson learned: Don’t call 1-800 numbers after 12am. It’s true. Nothing good happens after midnight.

Nicki Minaj and A Free Fall.

I’ve been fortunate enough in my life to have some pretty amazing experiences. Although, one trip in particular takes the cake, and it happened to be the product of my father’s overindulgence in Manhattans coupled with a sudden realization that frequent flyer miles actually do expire.

I’m talking about the time I swindled my way into a trip to New Zealand to visit my bestie of twenty-four years, Shannon.

Sidenote: Shannon is the type of person I’d love to be. I consider myself a free-spirit, a ‘take it day-by-day’ type of girl. But she completely blows me out of the water with her lifestyle. This girl studied abroad in Auckland during college, then three minutes after accepting her diploma at graduation, was sitting down on a plane, seatbelt fastened, packed and ready to move halfway across the world and become a Kiwi for an undisclosed amount of time. Just a true gambler and globetrotter to the core.

So let’s recap: Friend since birth moves to New Zealand. Friend asks me to come visit. I can’t afford it. Father drinks a couple Manhattans, realizes frequent flyer miles are going to expire. I swoop in with transglobal travel suggestion. Emphasize cultural and personal importance of said experience. Dad calls airline, subsequently drunkenly books ticket. I’m going to New Zealand.

525 feet of nothing but air.

Fast forward through a twenty-four hour travel spree, nine in-flight movies, realizing and comprehending that they sell lamb patties at the Auckland Airport McDonalds, and I’ve arrived!

Shannon scoops me up at the airport, and we’re off! Listing off all the audacious activities that are about to happen, which include, and are almost limited to wine tastings and vineyard tours. Jackpot. I’m nodding in agreement with all the activities she has planned, until she gets to the last one. So let’s get to the ultimatum.

“Before you leave, we’re going to do the Nevis Swing,” I nodded in agreement, picturing those harmless swings at a carnival, “It’s the biggest swing in the world.”

That’s when my jaw dropped.

“I’m not doing it alone,” Shannon continued. “You have to do it with me, or else I’m never going to do it.”

It was a tall order, and she had done so much for me: planning this entire trip, making sure I saw everything that needed to be seen. But I am absolutely terrified of heights. I don’t go over bridges. I don’t look out windows when I’m up high. I avoid seeing how far above the ground I am at all costs. I don’t like to think about it. And I definitely didn’t want a harness to be the only thing saving me from a canyon induced death.

This bridge… NOPE.

But this was a challenge I had to accept. I flew across the world to visit Shannon – I couldn’t back out of doing something that I’ll never again experience in my life. This was monumental.

I needed a wine. I needed a beer. I needed alcohol.

We went to get sized for harnesses, literally sign our lives away – in case of death or injury, Nevis claims no responsibility, as it was done on our own free will and utter stupidity – then boarded a bus that took us to the top of the canyon where we would inevitably plummet 525 feet at almost 80 MPH.

Just a typical Saturday.

“Are you with me, or are you going to chicken out?” She asked as we approached just one of my many fears that I would end up conquering today: a giant, wide open, single file bridge.

“I’m scared shitless.” There were no other words I could say, and in agreement, she turned and started walking. I had to follow. We made our way across the bridge, and to the platform where I took a seat in the safest corner of the hut. We were given the task to chose our ‘descent music,’ the song that would play when we cut the cord and dropped into the valley. We chose Nicki Minaj’s classic, “Super Bass” to take us down.

Going to marry that guy.

We watched a few people go, a lot of girls scream, and before we knew it, and way before I was ready, it was our turn. Second fear to conquer: getting strapped and harnessed to the point of anxiety. But I guess when the straps are so tight around your thighs that you can’t feel them, there’s less of a chance that you’ll slip out and die. So I was okay with that.

We were ready. Well, as ready as you could be. We sat down on the platform, and the hot swing employee asks, “Are we ready, ladies?” Then, before we could answer, he flips a switch and we hear the gears grinding, and our bodies being lifted off the platform. We’re hanging above safety now, and he asks us to smile. We obliged. This could be the happiest and last moment of my life, I may as well look excited.

He presses the button again, and we’re being mechanically moved farther away from the platform, and my heart is sinking with each passing inch. Shannon is gripping my right hand so tightly, but I don’t even notice because I’m gripping hers just as tight. The machine stops, and we swing back and forth until we’ve reached an equilibrium.

“…This one is for the boys with the boomin’ system. Top down, AC with the coolin’ system…” I hear Nicki playing over the speakers, and the hot swing employee picks up a megaphone and holds it to his mouth, “Okay, I’m going to release you on the count of three. Does that work?”

DROPPED.

Shannon and I both nodded. I couldn’t formulate a sentence. “Okay, here we go! One, two..” He pressed the release button. Didn’t even get to three.

We were free falling, clutching each other’s hands so tightly, my eyes were closed, mouth open, but no sound coming out. After a second, I opened my eyes, and we were swinging. I look over at Shannon and she has opened her eyes at the same time.

“HOLY SHIT. HOLY SHIT. HOLY SHIT.” We both had lost any and all appropriate vocabulary for the moment, the only thing we could do was swear. We were astonished. But we had done it.

I made it out alive.

It was one of the single best events of the trip, and my life. Shannon, a girl who I’ve looked up to as being the epitome of courageous, made me try something I never wanted to try. She helped me conquer a fear that I never thought would be possible. Do I still hate heights? Yes. But the idea of driving over a bridge or looking out a floor-to-ceiling glass window is not so daunting when you’ve fallen over five-hundred feet solely attached by a harness.

So Dad, thanks for giving me the opportunity to go to New Zealand and experience this. Shan, thanks for making me do it, but please don’t ever make me do it again.

Full video of the jump:  Nevis Madness

If you don’t watch this speech from Ellen Page, you’re just dumb.

By far one of the best speeches I’ve ever heard. So completely inspirational.

Ellen Page is the shit.

I knew we would be friends when she was in Juno. Calling a newborn child a seamonkey when they’re in the womb was brilliant, and I bet she ad libbed the whole thing.

Hey America, this is who we should be considering a role model. Let’s start telling women to look at her.

But, I guess I’ll wake up from my nap and pick up my magazine with the cover story, “Kourtney Kardashian’s beach vacation in Cabo San Lucas! See all the juicy photos of her and Scott’s tropical getaway!” That seems like a way more worthwhile and newsworthy topic.

Watch the video below:

Remembering My First Love

I’m going to be real honest and break it down for a hot second.

I’ve had my fair share of crushes that didn’t quite pan out (I’m talking to you, Leo DeCaps) the way that I wanted. But love is a completely different story.

I’ve been there, done that, moved on, and (almost) got over it. But then again, the first cut is the deepest, right Sheryl Crow? You go girl, sign it from the heart! Lance Armstrong sucks! (just kidding…?)

Anyways, since I’m somewhat of a scornful human being when it comes to broken hearts, I did a little research into the whole feeling of love and what it means. And what I found what shocking.

Turns out, I’m already in love. Who knew? I started reading about the 7 Ways Love Transforms Your Brain, and with each progressing number it became more and more clear.

I’m in love with food.

And it’s pretty bad. I knew when the clock struck noon that I was hungry, but who knew it was hunger pangs tugging on my heart strings?

Don’t believe me? Well, you should. Because here are the 7 ways my brain has been transformed since I admitted my unrequited love for all things edible.

EDITOR'S NOTE: RED TEXT is website info, BLACK TEXT, much like my soul, are my own thoughts.

1. You Feel Addicted

Ever hear that love is a drug? Well, there may be some truth to that. Your brain houses these intensely passionate feelings using the same system that’s activated when a person is addicted to drugs, from the euphoria you feel to your cravings for more. Sure, it might be a much healthier addiction — but let’s face facts, shall we? You’re an addict.

The only things I am positive I am addicted to are bacon, wine, and unlimited brunch buffets. Call me a hopeless romantic, but I don’t think too much IHOP ever hurt anybody. I guess that encompasses most food entities. Checkmark on the addiction aspect of food admiration.

2. You Start Thinking In Twos

It’s not just “me, me, me” anymore. Now, there’s two of you to think about — and your brain will automatically pick up the changes. The bond you share with your partner or children runs way deeper than just on the outside.

I can’t imagine a day going by without having more than one of anything that I eat. Two bowls of cereal? Yes, please. A double dose of chips and salsa? Absolutely. An extra side of bacon? Do I even have to answer? I even cut my sandwiches in half just so I cognitively think there are two rather than one part to my lunch meal.

3. You Love Longer (And Become Wiser)

Falling in love is as good for your heart as it is for your mental health. People in love report higher levels of dopamine, which is linked to pleasure, desire and euphoria. Studies report that people in positive, healthy relationships live longer, are happier, wiser and have better mental health.

You know what’s good for your heart? Food. You know why skinny people are so crazy? They don’t eat enough. Has anyone ever felt worse after eating a heaping pile of huevos rancheros for breakfast? Don’t answer that. I just know that after I eat a bacon cheese burger, I feel like I’m on top of the world. Endorphins to the moon and back baby. That’s how I roll.

4. You’re More Supportive

One of the biggest benefits of falling in love is that you’ll learn what it’s really like to lean on (and support) another person. Building trust in a relationship is crucial. And, your brain helps you out with that. When we’re in love, we’re less likely to be critical or skeptical of the person we care about.

“Hey, let’s talk about this over a big plate of onion rings” is one of my favorite phrases. Food builds trust. Food is trust. Learn it, live it, love it. Support food, support me, support you. It’s all in a days work. Eat, support a pal, go home, sleep like a baby.

5. You De-Stress

Some of us might mistake those butterflies surrounding your first kiss — but there’s no way your brain will ever forget how it first felt to be touched by someone you’re in love with.

You haven’t had butterflies until you’re waiting in your booth on pins and needles for a short stack of pancakes on a Sunday morning. Your brain doesn’t ever forget something as crucial as a post-hangover meal. Especially if it’s carb-o-loaded. You can quote me on that.

6. You Glow (Well, Your Brain’s Reward Centers Do!)

In a study that assessed couples “madly in love,” scientists found that the reward centers of their brains lit up after just looking at a picture of their spouse. Let the bright lines shine, baby!

Look at these pictures and tell me you are not immediately filled with glee. I rest my case.

7. You Feel Safe

Similar to the first bonds babies make with their mothers, the feeling of security will emerge in your relationship. As you age and change, your body actually remembers the brain cycles and stages that you went through in your youth — so when you feel reconnected to your baby self, those feelings of safety and contentment will come flooding back. Research also shows that when we feel love for someone, it shuts down the part of our brain that controls fear and negative emotions.

Do I feel safe while I’m eating? Not particularly. Do I feel safe after I’m done eating, and have a full range of motion as well as sharp utensils to thwart off any enemies? Abso-posi-tive-a-lutely. Forks and steak knives all day.

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PS- I will be an Onion Ring Connoisseur before I die.

An Open Letter to Valentine’s Day

I just have one thing to say to Valentines Day.

Stop making everyone so cynical.

There are a myriad of scenarios. You feel crappy cause you aren’t celebrating with anyone. When you do have someone you’re annoyed because he or she isn’t happy with what you planned. If you’re the awful person who isn’t happy with what your boyfriend or girlfriend planned, I hate you.

If you are one of the people who has a ‘special someone’ to share this blessed day in February with, for the love of God, do not nitpick. There is nothing worse than waking up and realizing you have a hundred things to do, and only ten minutes to get them done.

Men wake up and feel like this every. single. day.

If it’s not in their direct line of sight, they won’t see it. If it isn’t playing through their headphones, they won’t hear it. If they are not hungry, they will not think to ask if you are. If you didn’t tell them about it that hour, they won’t remember it.

Stop putting pressure on one night. Do not complain that your dinner wasn’t at the restaurant you two had your first kiss, date, or vegetarian option. Thank the high heavens that he is a good enough sweet talker to get you into the damn place, enjoy your steak and wine, and maybe even each other’s company.

The fact that he even remembered today was a holiday is a miracle in itself. Men don’t walk down the card aisle and accidentally get time warped for three hours. Only women do that. Men see that aisle, cower in fear, and stick their arm out to grab the first one they reach, praying it is at least funny or sentimental.

It is simple: we are wired differently. Men are linear beings, while women are curved seven ways to Sunday and then bent in half. Learn this; you will understand why men don’t do things on a woman’s timeline.

If you are one of the (un)lucky people who does not have a sig-oth (significant other for those abbreviatedly challenged) to hang out with, there are also a ton of things you can do to avoid looking, feeling, and acting like a complete moron.

Please do not allow yourself to sit at home on your couch, wallowing in self-pity, crying into a pint of ice cream because you don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend to help you achieve pink hearted bliss.

Get your lazy ass off the couch and go to a speed dating convention, download Tinder, walk down the street, or go to a bar. Any of these things will likely result in the meeting of someone remotely interesting. Because if you’re choosing to sit at home feeling sorry for yourself due to your relationship status, you have bigger fish to fry and those fish involve a heavy dose of medication and a relaxing seat in a psychiatrist’s office.

When the clock strikes midnight, it is no longer Valentine’s Day, so suck it up. I’ve had sandwiches that have lasted more than twenty-four hours. In the timeline of life, it’s not a big deal to miss out on one day. Put on a nice outfit, look good, and go dance your face off with all the other people at the misery commiseration gala at Ruby Tuesdays.

The world will not stop turning if you don’t have a date. Time will not stop ticking if you can’t get a reservation at your favorite restaurant. Chaos will not ensue if you decide you’d rather go out with your friends and dance the night away — okay, chaos may ensue.

Regardless of your relationship status, Valentine’s Day should not determine how you feel about yourself. If anything, it’s a perfect excuse to cheat on your diet, eat seven chocolate bars, and crush a bottle of wine without apologizing to anyone.

Because I’ll tell you this much, if you do that on any other day of the year, you’ll have to hand-write at least six apology notes, and you won’t feel great about it.

Are you there, Google? It’s me, Meg.

Did a nice little guest spot on TipsyLit.com today – check it out!

Let Out Your Inner Child!: Children’s Lit Week on Tipsy Lit

Get ready for a weekly dose of nostalgia in a literary sense. Children’s Literature week is happening and it is glorious. There may even be a post by yours truly.

And by might, I mean there definitely will. Mark your calendars, both physical and electronic. Meg Lago is going back to childhood and you don’t want to miss it.

Check back TUESDAY at 12PM (aka NOOOOOON) to see my post for Tipsy Lit’s Children’s Week!!

xoxo meg

Spoiler Alert: Invention of the Century Inside

OMG, SOOOO TASTY!!

Oh boy! I’ve been waiting to share this idea for about three minutes since i just remembered it existed.

I’m a girl who is on the continual hunt for excellence. I’m always trying to improve. My brain is in constant motion, for the better and for the worse. I don’t want anyone to see or hear my private thoughts, but today, I’ve decided I’m going to let you in on a little piece of Meg’s brain that harbors my inventions.

A lot of things go on inside my head. Mostly irrelevant, nonsensical notions, but sometimes there are gems. This is one of those times. But how do you dissect the weird from the truly ingenious? Luckily, I found an online survey that allows you to determine whether or not your invention is good or bad.

I present to you:

MOTIVATIONAL SOUPS

Describe what your invention does in one or more action phrases.

It’s like MLK in your Minestrone.

Does your invention solve a specific problem? If so, describe the problem it solves.

Hunger is a very real problem in my life, and in anyone’s life who is alive. People gotta eat! And everyone could use a little ego boost.

What advantages does your product have in comparison to the products or solutions above?

I’ve never eaten a can of minestrone and immediately felt souper cool, friendly, or fun – Progressive and Campbell’s just can’t do that. BOOM.

What disadvantages does it have?

I guess if you tell people that your emotional state is being swayed by a canned liquid lunch, people might question your sanity. Other than that, I see no disadvantages.

How much do you expect to sell your product for? How much do similar products sell for?

Like, 5$? Maybe I’ll add a name your price option, Souper Rich seems like it could be a big seller.

Describe a typical user of your product. Is the person who pays for it a different person? If so, describe the typical person who would pay for your product.

Grumpy people at lunchtime.

What are your goals for this invention?

~~To improve the mental and physical well being of the human population, while providing a well balanced meal.~~ To make so many dollhairs.

Mark any of the following items that you already have with a check. Mark any that would like to have with an * and estimate your expected budget for that item if you can.

[X] sketches (a simple drawing of the invention)

[X] patent (official patent protection for your idea)

[X] visual model (a 3D model that shows how the invention might look)

[ ] working model (a model that demonstrates that the invention will work)

[ ] computer model (a computer representation of the invention, used for manufacturing)

[ ] technical drawings (drawings that a shop can work from to produce your product)

[ ] renderings (a computer generated image of how your product will look)

[ ] prototype (something close to or identical to the final product)

[ ] production run (many copies of the product to sell)

[ ] product photographs (professional photographs of the product to use in marketing it)

Flavors to be rolled out in large quantities:

Souper Easy, Souper Fun, Souper Awesome, Souper Smart, Souper Attractive, Souper Awkward, Souper Friendly, Souper Drunk, Souper Sassy, Souper Dramatic

Any and all offers are appreciated. I’d like to see this up and running… tomorrow. Kinda hurting for cash and stuff.

Cleaning: Then vs. Now

Chores. The word that, as a child, would make me come up with a sudden prior commitment, a misplaced cell phone, or some sort of bedridden ailment.

No pants? No problem. #Laundry

Chores. The word, that as a semi-adult, would still make me come up with excuses, take a necessary nap in avoidance, but the end result would be finding my cell phone.

It’s funny to think about how much you’ve actually grown up compared to yourself as a child. I used to cringe at the thought of doing dishes, but now I will head hunt a roommate and give her a hairy eyeball until she goes and washes the pan from two days ago.

I don’t think I’ve grown up that much, but there are certain aspects of life I’ve accepted as growing up since I’ve moved out.

Making your bed:

Kid: The only time I made my bed was when my mom made me change my sheets. I just rolled out of bed, then rolled right back in at the end of the night. Covers still disrupted, it was easy to just pull them back over my gross kid body and call it a night.

Adult: I will forget to bring a lunch to work but you better bet your bottom dollar I make my bed. There are few greater pleasures than getting ready to go to sleep and hopping inside a freshly made bed. The warmth of the blankeys permeated through the sheets. Just pure heaven. An absolute must before leaving in the morning.

Laundry:

Kid: Laundry consisted of me finding what looked the cleanest on the floor and putting it back onto my body. If I mustered up the motivation and strength to put everything in a basket and bring it upstairs, mamma Meg would take care of that problem. Shirts always perfectly folded, socks always perfectly coupled. I don’t think I ever had missing footwear as a child. My mom had that shit on LOCK.

Adult: Laundry consists of me finding what looks the cleanest on my floor and putting it back onto my body. If I muster up the motivation and strength to gather everything into a basket and bring it into the laundry room, chances are I waited too long to fit it all into one machine. Nothing is ever folded. Socks are always missing. Laundry is a constant battle.

Dishes:

Kid: Don’t get me started. I could catch a disease washing a dish. Especially growing up with three boys, I saw how they ate. No regard for manners, politeness, or basic chewing. I was not in any way, shape, or form touching those plates. Got to the point where if I didn’t do my dishes, my mom would actually take them and put them on my bed. And as we learned earlier, my bed was never made – so that made for a very unpleasant situation.

Adult: I learned very quickly after moving out that doing dishes is essential. When you live with people you don’t know, it’s important to keep the place clean. Or, you quickly learn to question how people were raised when you see them leave dishes in the sink, bowls on the counter, and mugs on the table for days on end. Also, never been more excited to see a dishwasher in my life than when I moved into my new apartment.

Cleaning the house:

Kid: Cleaning the house meant one of two things, either I was being punished, or relatives were coming, which in some cases, could be punishment in itself. Nothing worse than knowing Thanksgiving was coming up and remembering I have to polish the entire silver set that we use for thirty minutes a year. “But it’s because it’s your grandmother’s.” My mom would always say. Okay mom.

Adult: Now I just clean because the place is filthy and I can’t stand having to walk around wearing shoes. A good vacuum is hard to come by, but essential for my sanity. I never understood why my mom put so much effort into cleaning when guests were going to come and dirty up the place. But as a mature, cultured adult, I understand that presentation is important, and first, second, and all the time impressions are always measured. CLEAN YA HOUZE.

..Now excuse me, I have to go decide whether or not I’m going to shower tonight.

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Half and Half

half wit. half wisdom. a whole lot of nonsense.

Bad Habits Don’t Always Need to Be Broken

I’m Hoping My Mother Ignores This One.

Nicki Minaj and A Free Fall.

If you don’t watch this speech from Ellen Page, you’re just dumb.